
This lobster mac and cheese is the recipe I pull out when I want to turn a regular dinner into a truly special occasion. It's the ultimate comfort food, elevated with sweet, tender lobster meat swimming in the creamiest, dreamiest cheese sauce you can imagine. Forget the boxed stuff; this is a decadent dish that creates a lasting memory.
I first made this for my partner’s birthday, and the look on their face was priceless. It has since become our go to celebration meal, the one we make when we really want to treat ourselves.
Ingredients
- One pound elbow macaroni or cellentani pasta: The ridges on cellentani are perfect for catching all that glorious sauce
- Five tablespoons butter: The foundation of our rich sauce, so use a good quality unsalted butter
- Sixteen ounces lobster meat: This is the star. Pre cooked claw and knuckle meat is easiest, but you can steam your own for the freshest flavor
- One teaspoon seafood seasoning: A little kick that complements the lobster without overpowering it
- Three tablespoons all purpose flour: This is our thickener for the cheese sauce, creating that perfect consistency
- Two to three cups milk: Whole milk will give you the richest results. Start with two cups and add more if needed
- One cup heavy whipping cream: For an extra velvety, luxurious texture that’s simply unmatched
- One half teaspoon onion powder: Adds a subtle savory depth that supports the cheese and lobster
- Salt and pepper to taste: Always taste your sauce before adding the pasta to get the seasoning just right
- Two cups shredded sharp cheddar cheese: Buy a block and shred it yourself. Pre shredded cheese has anti caking agents that can make your sauce grainy
- One cup shredded fontina cheese: This is my secret to the best cheese pull. It’s a fantastic melting cheese with a mild, nutty flavor
- One half cup shredded Parmigiano Reggiano: Adds a salty, nutty complexity that cuts through the richness
Step-by-Step Instructions
- Cook the Pasta:
- Bring a large pot of water to a rolling boil and salt it generously, it should taste like the sea. Add your pasta and cook it until it’s just al dente, meaning it still has a slight bite. This is crucial because it will continue cooking in the oven. Drain it well and set it aside.
- Prepare the Lobster:
- In a medium skillet, melt one tablespoon of the butter over medium heat. Add the lobster meat and sprinkle it with the seafood seasoning. Sauté for just three to five minutes, until the lobster is just heated through. You don’t want to overcook it and make it tough. Remove the skillet from the heat.
- Create the Cheese Sauce:
- In the same large pot you used for the pasta, melt the remaining four tablespoons of butter over medium heat. Once it’s fully melted and foamy, whisk in the flour to form a paste, known as a roux. Cook this for about a minute, whisking constantly, to cook out the raw flour taste. Slowly, and I mean slowly, begin pouring in the milk while you continue to whisk. This gradual addition is key to a lump free sauce. Once all the milk is incorporated, let the mixture thicken for a few minutes. Stir in the heavy cream, onion powder, salt, and pepper.
- Melt the Cheeses:
- Reduce the heat to low and begin adding the shredded cheeses in small handfuls. Stir continuously until each addition is completely melted and the sauce is smooth and glossy before adding the next. This gentle heat prevents the cheese from breaking or becoming oily.
- Assemble and Bake:
- Preheat your oven to 375°F and lightly grease a baking dish with cooking spray. Gently fold the cooked pasta and the prepared lobster meat into the cheese sauce until everything is evenly coated. Pour the entire mixture into your prepared baking dish and spread it into an even layer. Bake for 25 to 30 minutes, or until the top is beautifully golden brown and the edges are bubbly. Let it rest for a few minutes before serving.

My favorite part of this whole recipe is the cheese blend. The first time I added Fontina, it was a total game changer. That incredible meltiness combined with the sharp cheddar and salty Parmigiano Reggiano is what makes this sauce so memorable for my family.
Making it Ahead and Storing Leftovers
You can assemble the entire mac and cheese a day ahead of time. Just prepare it up to the point of baking, cover it tightly, and refrigerate. You may need to add about 10 minutes to the baking time when cooking it from cold. Leftovers can be stored in an airtight container in the refrigerator for up to three days. To reheat, I suggest adding a splash of milk and warming it gently in a saucepan on the stove or in the microwave.
Choosing Your Lobster
Don't feel like you have to wrestle with a live lobster to make this dish amazing. High quality, pre cooked frozen lobster meat works wonderfully here and saves a ton of time and effort. Look for a mix of claw and knuckle meat for the best texture and flavor. If you do use fresh, steam or boil two small lobsters and let them cool completely before shelling.
Perfect Pairings
This dish is incredibly rich, so it pairs best with something light and acidic to cut through the creaminess. A simple green salad with a bright lemon vinaigrette is a perfect companion. For a beverage, a crisp, dry white wine like a Sauvignon Blanc or an unoaked Chardonnay complements the sweet lobster and cheesy sauce beautifully.
Frequently Asked Questions
- → What kind of pasta is best for lobster mac & cheese?
Elbow macaroni or cellentani pasta work best, but any short, sturdy pasta will do. Ensure it's cooked al dente to maintain texture during baking.
- → Can I use frozen lobster meat?
Yes, frozen lobster meat can be used. Thaw it completely and pat it dry before cooking to avoid excess moisture.
- → What kind of cheese can I substitute?
Gruyere, white cheddar, or provolone are excellent substitutes for fontina. You can also adjust the cheese blend to your preference.
- → How do I prevent the mac & cheese from drying out?
Use room-temperature milk and cream for the sauce, and avoid overbaking. A layer of breadcrumbs on top can also help retain moisture.
- → Can I prepare this dish in advance?
Yes, you can assemble the mac & cheese ahead of time and refrigerate it. Add a little extra milk to the sauce before baking to compensate for any dryness. Add 10-15 minutes to the cook time.
- → What side dishes pair well with lobster mac & cheese?
A simple green salad, steamed asparagus, or roasted vegetables complement the richness of the mac & cheese nicely.